D/s Relationship Explained (Domme/submissive)Recently, many ..

D/s Relationship Explained (Domme/submissive)

Recently, many new fans have started calling me "Goddess," professing devotion, and claiming to be my slaves—all without first seeking my permission. I do not permit just anyone to call me "Goddess" or to identify as my slave—these titles are earned. True submission goes far beyond words. Many are drawn here for the thrill of femdom fantasies, eager for tasks and content that align with their kinks, seeking sexual gratification, rather than showing a genuine desire to serve me.

Genuine submission is about dedication, not just indulgence. A real submissive considers my needs and seeks ways to serve without expecting a sexual payoff or something in return. True service isn’t about their gain—it’s about meeting my desires, whether it’s a gesture like sending for coffee every morning or, as an example, making sure I look stunning when I go out on dates with my bulls (e.g., one of my subs recently purchased me a $500 hair dryer).

A quick way to tell the difference is simple: Have they ever considered giving purely to honor me? For many, their motives end at personal pleasure. Real submission is deeper, reflecting a true dedication that centers on my needs rather than just indulging their kinks.

Tribute is another often misunderstood concept; it’s not merely a transactional exchange. Tribute is an act of respect, a tangible acknowledgment of my power and value. Financial tribute, in particular, is one of the best ways to serve—it requires true submission, a willingness to yield, even when it isn’t easy. It’s an act that shows devotion by prioritizing me and my desires above one’s own wants, embodying true dedication.

We don’t need a full D/s relationship to connect meaningfully; there are many ways to share space and engage, such as through shared kinks and fantasies. However, this doesn’t make you my slave. It’s more akin to a friendly dynamic you might have with a favorite waitress—she serves what you enjoy, and you respect her role, but it doesn’t create a deeper bond of submission or devotion. Our connection can still be enjoyable and respectful, but true submission means something far more.

If this applies to you, that’s perfectly okay, as true submissives are actually few and far between. Just be mindful not to confuse the act of getting off to femdom content with being the creators slave. Moreover, you probably aren't a submissive who truly wants to serve a dominatrix; rather, you engage in submission as a fetish for your own pleasure.

This is quite common. Many individuals have kinks and fetishes that don't necessarily reflect the deeper dynamics of true submission. More often than not, people simply have kinks and fetishes that don’t necessarily align with the deeper, more profound dynamics of submission. Understanding this distinction is crucial for respecting the true essence of the D/s relationship.

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