Serving a Domme 101Inspired by someone that thought it was a..
Added 2024-11-24 16:47:22 +0000 UTCServing a Domme 101
Inspired by someone that thought it was a good idea to send a dick pic, stating that he is ready to "serve me", I figured I would, once again, explain what serving a dominatrix means.
As a dominatrix, I value and appreciate the difference between serving me and paying for my services. You should also fully understand this, because, in fact, I wear both hats, that of a kink dispsener, and that of a dominatrix.
SERVING ME
Serving me means indulging my desires, pleasing me in ways that center on my joy and satisfaction—whether that’s thoughtful gestures, gifts, or tributes that demonstrate your devotion, expecting nothing in return.
PAYING FOR SERVICES
On the other hand, paying for my professional services—like femdom sexting, SPH, or custom content—is a transaction where you are receiving something in return for your payment. Here I am being paid to dispense kinks and fetishes, with the focus solely on your sexual gratification.
THE DIFFERENCE
Confusing these two dynamics is common but also misses the essence of what it means to truly serve. Serving me is about me; paying for a service is about you. Understand this distinction, and you'll know how to approach me properly
GENUINE SUBS ARE RARE
Genuine submissives are rare. Interestingly, fans often complain that "real" dommes are hard to find, and while that may be true at times, it’s just as often the case, if not more common, that they fail to understand what it really means to serve. Service requires commitment, effort, and a focus on someone other than themselves.
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