I’m very new to mfm & trying to be a bull myself. Any advice..

I’m very new to mfm & trying to be a bull myself. Any advice? Alex: I can write a book about it... Here are some of the things come to my mind, but of course, there much more to it. 1. Be attractive. let’s face it, unless you are blessed with Chris Hemsworth genes or were cursed by the gods to look like Ron Jeremy, and you are like me, you are probably a 6 on a scale of 10 (I am 5’ 9” and balding. Not exactly David Beckham). The good news is that almost everyone in the world is in fact a 6! We can’t control our genetics, but there a lot we can control. With some discipline and good habits, most 6s can turn into solid 8s and even 9s. Go to the gym, go to the dentist, develop good grooming routines, dress properly for your body type and age, and be hygienic. I can’t overstate how much physical fitness is a game changer to anyone’s looks, confidence and self-esteem. When it comes to being a bull, looking good and feeling comfortable in your own skin is everything! 2. Finding couples is not that complicated – there are several swingers dating services, reddit, swingers and traditional dating apps. On top of that, many big cities have a swinger’s club that allow single guys in on certain days of the week (its how I started). 3. Have about 10 good pictures ready to share. I am always surprised to see how many guys fail this very simple step and use shitty mirror selfies or dick closeups only as if it is enough. There no excuse, in this time and age, everyone has a high-quality phone camera and even if you are not an expert at photo taking, there is no reason not to practice it. Just lean the phone against something, put it on a timer, and practice your good angles and light. Everyone has some strengths and you should highlight them. Were you blessed with a nice smile? have them pearly whites heavily featured in your photos. Have nice biceps? Flex them! Looking better with a 5 o’clock shadow? Keep it on. My suggestion is to have the following pictures: two good face pics, six body pics from different angles – some clothed (nice jeans and white t shirt is always a good choice), some partially clothed (girls dig guys looking good topless in jeans or nice pair of Calvin’s), and couple of naked pics. Even if you are blessed with the world most perfect cock, no need having more than two or three pics. It should give the couples you are communicating with a good idea. Remember, everyone posts their best pictures (many of which are outdated), so you need to use your best pictures too. Don’t post pictures of yourself if they are completely misleading however. I sent at least two guys home who showed up looking significantly worse than their pictures. You don’t want that to happen. 4. Respect the relationship and the couple’ boundaries. Every couple has their own boundaries and if they don’t specify them, you might want to ask. Be mindful that even if you are talking to her, the husband typically has access to everything you send, so don’t text anything you are not comfortable with him seeing. Some husbands are perfectly fine with dirty talk and sexting and all of that, but you might want to double check before you tell her “I am gona steal you from your husband and fuck your brains out”. 5. Don’t overdo texting but don’t send one-word responses. Strike a balance between being engaging and aloof. I personally avoid couples who just want to text all day for a long period of time without setting concrete plans. Most of them just get off on the fantasy and are not ready to go through with it. 6. Be concise but informative when introducing yourself in your first message. I typically would write something like this: “Hi, I am Alex. I came across your profile and she is superhot! I would love to chat and see if we are a good fit. I am clean-cut, easy going, fit, 38 yo from [place]. I am 5’ 10”, 165 lbs., 7” down below. I can host or travel. Looking forward to chat.” Then attach two of your best body pictures, the one with the jeans and white t in which your biceps look great and the other one where you rocking your Calvin Klein’s as if you were Marky Mark. Keep the Dick and face pics for later if the conversations go anywhere and they ask for it. 7. Compliments and ego stroking. Everyone likes validation and couples are not different. Don’t overdo but do some ego stroking. I am always surprised by guys who can’t give a compliment to a hot woman and how much of a difference it makes for her if she hears the “you look hot!” or something on these lines. You don’t need to compliment the husband himself, but there no harm in telling him “You wife is a fucking bombshell, man!” or “You a lucky man. I love your guys relationship and how open you are with each other”. You get the picture. You are much more likely to have a positive experience and be invited again if you do some light ego stroking. Don’t overdo it, of course. 8. Push yourself to be a little assertive when meeting couples and initiate. Strike a balance between seeming interested but not overly pushy. You were not invited to a book club meeting… Touch her leg lightly under the table at the bar, show her you are interested… I sent few guys away because they were too passive and did not show enough interests (I think they were just too nervous, but it reduced their attractiveness to Lana). When invited to their house or hotel room, don’t stand at the side like a shy schoolboy. Grab her ass and kiss her neck… If you made it that far, you already know their boundaries and they want you to take initiative and show some passions towards her. 9. Focus on her but don’t forget about him. Show her passion, but don’t hog the pussy if it makes sense. Step back and switch. If the husband just happy to watch, this is fine, but at least he knows you were respectful. The more the husband feels included and part of the fun, the more likely he is to like you and invite you again, and/or recommend you to other couples they might know. 10. Don’t overstay your welcome. Use your home shower and don’t overstay after everything is done. They are likely waiting for you to leave so they can continue riding the high. 11. If you are interested in seeing them again, send them a polite message the following day expressing that you would like to get with them again.