***I’m going to say something that many people might not lik..

***I’m going to say something that many people might not like, but here it goes.*** I personally find the idea of cuming on someone’s face to be degrading. I have no judgement for those that are into degradation, but it personally is not for me. I think the porn industry has made it appear as though women desire having cum in their eyes, and while I know there are many out there that enjoy having cum on their face, I do not personally know a single woman in my network that does. I do, however, know of **countless women** who feel that they have to take cum on their face because it is expected of them. ***My policy when it comes to intimacy is if you’re not willingly to receive what you’re asking someone else to receive, then you are behaving selfishly and, in most cases, you are uneducated about the act you’re wanting to engage in.*** I’m bringing this up because I’ve had so many men tell me they’re going to cum on my face while we’ve been talking, even after I set terms ahead of our conversations letting them know that I am not into that. If you’re going to sext with someone… my advise is that you learn about their desires first. Yes, I offer sexting on my page, but that is because it is also a part of my sexual expression and enjoyment. I truly love sexting and think it is a fun way to spice things up. I do not offer sexting to cater solely to the person I’m talking to; just like I do not engage in activities during sex that I am not also into. ***So, men - I urge you to consider why it is you have the desire to cum on another person’s face.*** If it is a kinky and degrading thing you and your partner are into, then that’s fully your choice. But **if it is because you have watched it in porn… that is not a reason to do it. It most certainly is not a reason to tell me where you’re going to deposit your semen. Because that is not your choice.**